Why does this make me old fashioned and "set back women"?

I am Christian first and foremost. Yet, I am a little annoyed because many women have said that I am out of date and out of touch. I believe that men are the head of the household and I believe in spoiling my husband. I don't have a problem bringing his dinner plate to him while he relaxes. No problem with being submissive. No problem with giving him mages the same way he would do me. I believe in cooking and getting up and making breakfast. Keeping a clean home and whatever else. I have not tried to get anyone to live to way I do. Their marriage is their business. So why is it the way that I choose to live is detrimental to the progression of women??