Don't i have every right to be pissed?

okay, my dad, (ashamed) loves pushing people's ons. he knows of course how i despise being demined, so he always bring it up when im hving a sucky day. like today, he was all like 'women can't do this & that, then he went off like if you think ur equal then why not come outside and fix the fence w/ me.' then i said 'you said tht last time i had to clean the whole yard.' and he's all ' well since your equal i'll go buy u a shovel,.,., (pause) i'll make it pink just for you' now after he kept making comments like tht for a few minuets i was through, and i flipped out on him. i yelled tht he should gget w/ the times and tht i could do whatever he could do and probably better if i wanted to. then he said 'is it tht time of the month?' man he just pisses me off. because if my mom was here she probably would have got him to shutup, because my mother doesn't take tht sort of crap. but of course he only does this crap when she's not here. & my sisters just sit there and laugh about it w/ him how one of these days im going to realise. relise what?! thts what i want to know! damit, he brushes me off like my opinions dnt even matter. god dammit if he wasn't my father i would hve layed him out! im not a feminist in my opinion but when someone tells me the kind of crap he does i can't just sit there. i mean i do everything to show him im not something secondary, im great in school, sports no issue, etc but no he just doesn't notice tht. dn't i hve every right to be pissed, what would you hve done?